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Published in Christian Century

April 21, 2020

What Language Can I Borrow?

A very personal essay about mothers and mortality. How can we celebrate Eastertide during a time of COVID-19? In the May 5, 2020 print edition of Christian Century, online here. … [Read more...] about What Language Can I Borrow?

Grief & Grieving,  Published in Christian Century pandemic

February 19, 2016

A Conversation with Strangers at the Hair Salon

While I waited for my hair appointment, I chatted with two women over the magazines. They mentioned they were sisters, so I said, "How nice to make your hair a family affair." "It is nice, but it's not for a nice reason. Our mother died the other day." I felt surprised at this, and glanced at … [Read more...] about A Conversation with Strangers at the Hair Salon

Conversations with Strangers,  Published in Christian Century do you talk to people while waiting for a haircut,  two sisters grieving for their mother,  what love is

December 21, 2015

The Body of Christ is Both Tough & Fragile

When I was in seminary I was taught: Small churches are tough. You can't beat them to death with a stick! I believed that truism, and repeated it to others. Now I have fresh experience that allows me to see the backside of that truism, which is also true: Small churches are fragile. So far in my … [Read more...] about The Body of Christ is Both Tough & Fragile

Leading the Small Church,  Published in Christian Century Leading a small church which is going to close,  when a church dies

October 18, 2015

A Peculiar Energy, Even as the Congregation Dies

For the last few Sundays I've filled the pulpit for a small church that has lost its critical mass. Attendance has dwindled to a faithful few, all of whom are running out of energy. Not a happy situation. Still, when I enter the church building, I feel a sense of welcome and warmth from the folks … [Read more...] about A Peculiar Energy, Even as the Congregation Dies

Leading the Small Church,  Published in Christian Century closing a dying church,  Rich Young Ruler,  the peculiar energy of the small church

June 9, 2015

Signs vs. Sidewalk: Which Speaks Louder?

I was walking through an unfamiliar residential neighborhood to get some exercise, going at a good clip when I was brought to a sudden halt because the sidewalk disappeared. A certain establishment had not installed sidewalks along its considerable property line. The name of the establishment? … [Read more...] about Signs vs. Sidewalk: Which Speaks Louder?

Published in Christian Century church buildings

May 12, 2015

Two Kinds of Ministers

I submit that there are two kinds of ministers: ministers who've been hurt by the church, and ministers who haven't been hurt by the church, yet. I suppose you could apply this bifurcation to any group of persons. There are two kinds of spouses: those who have disappointed their mate, and those … [Read more...] about Two Kinds of Ministers

Published in Christian Century still life

April 8, 2015

Superhost!

Hospitality is important to me. I grew up in a home where it was common to have guests for dinner, even though we were a family of seven without a formal dining room. Simply getting everyone around the table could be a squeeze, but I don't remember a person ever complaining. We were happy to sit … [Read more...] about Superhost!

Learning as an Air Bnb Host,  Published in Christian Century Air BnB Superhost

September 29, 2014

Praise or Blame, All the Same: Handling Criticism

A recent article in the NYT,?Learning to Love Criticism,?discusses a Fortune.com study of performance reviews, which shows that women are criticized more severely, and in more personal ways, than are men. In other words: It's not our imagination! I am familiar with the dynamic described. As a … [Read more...] about Praise or Blame, All the Same: Handling Criticism

Published in Christian Century Richard Carlson

September 8, 2014

Hospitality: What the Church Can Learn from Air Bnb

I'm a Presbyterian pastor who often talks about hospitality. Last spring my husband and I took the practice of hospitality to a new level when we became Air Bnb hosts. Many people are curious about the experience of hosting. Why would we want to open up our home to complete strangers? I'll readily … [Read more...] about Hospitality: What the Church Can Learn from Air Bnb

Learning as an Air Bnb Host,  Published in Christian Century hospitality means open space,  the importance of uncluttered space

August 4, 2014

9 Things Pastors Can Do Besides Pray for Gaza

The conflict in Gaza occupies hearts and minds right now. I know you're praying for peace. But how else can a faith leader respond? So often we feel forced to choose a side.?Are you pro-Israeli or pro-Palestinian? The topic always seems to boil down to this question which (reasonably enough) results … [Read more...] about 9 Things Pastors Can Do Besides Pray for Gaza

Israel & Palestine,  Published in Christian Century Daoud Nassar,  Eran Frenkel,  learn about Zionism,  pro-Israeli or pro-Palestinian?

inequities facing women

April 29, 2014

Momma Don’t Want No Stinkin’ Card

I wrote this post about the inequities facing women in 2014. Unfortunately, it's all still true! You'll have to forgive me if I'm cranky about Mothers Day. Once again marketers will drape the world in pink, but I'm not feeling it. One Reason I'm Cranky Mothers Day is another working Sunday -- plus a … [Read more...] about Momma Don’t Want No Stinkin’ Card

Mothers Day,  Published in Christian Century inequities facing women

January 4, 2014

Bodypump & the Body of Christ

I love Bodypump. But January is a tough month to love my gym. All these newly-inspired resolution-making types show up to give Bodypump a try. They bang into me as they set up their bench top and risers. They encroach on my space. They don?t know proper weight selection. It makes me cranky. … [Read more...] about Bodypump & the Body of Christ

Published in Christian Century church underbellies,  exercise/health/body

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