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Grief & Grieving

April 21, 2020

What Language Can I Borrow?

A very personal essay about mothers and mortality. How can we celebrate Eastertide during a time of COVID-19? In the May 5, 2020 print edition of Christian Century, online here. … [Read more...] about What Language Can I Borrow?

Grief & Grieving,  Published in Christian Century pandemic

April 11, 2020

Easter during a Pandemic

(I wrote this for Easter 2020, but it's still applicable in Easter 2021. Published in The Christian Century.) Yesterday was Good Friday. Instead of working on a sermon or reading scripture to follow Jesus along the Via Dolorosa, I spent hours on the phone with my elderly mother, trying to help … [Read more...] about Easter during a Pandemic

Grief & Grieving,  Lent/Easter coronavirus,  Covid-19,  Easter,  Good Friday,  Holy Saturday,  stillbirth,  Triduum

preaching on Lazarus during the pandemic

March 29, 2020

UNBOUND, a sermon on the raising of Lazarus, John 11:1-45

… [Read more...] about UNBOUND, a sermon on the raising of Lazarus, John 11:1-45

Grief & Grieving Jesus raises Lazarus,  John 11:1-45,  Lazarus,  Mary and Martha,  preaching during the time of coronavirus,  Presbyterian pastor,  sermons for the pandemic

June 12, 2017

Body Memories of Grief

Do you sometimes have body memories -- that is, memories triggered by bodily experiences? Today I sat down in a dentist chair, opened my mouth for Abby, my dental hygienist, and was pierced by grief and a sense of doom. My body seemed to recall -- more clearly than my mind -- a teeth cleaning … [Read more...] about Body Memories of Grief

Grief & Grieving grieving my father at a one-year anniversary,  the body holds memories of grief

May 9, 2017

When Grief Sucks Us Dry: A Funeral & “Fun Home” On the Same Day

My little church experienced two unexpected deaths in two weeks -- fatal heart attacks of otherwise healthy persons. During that same period, a good friend of mine was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and died within a month. I did all the things a pastor does. I visited hospitals and put … [Read more...] about When Grief Sucks Us Dry: A Funeral & “Fun Home” On the Same Day

Grief & Grieving Fun Home the musical,  grief and loss,  Jeff Krehbiel

Elizabeth Hagan

November 16, 2016

BIRTHED: Finding Grace through Infertility, a book review

Do you know someone who is struggling with infertility? Perhaps this is the story you live, but hide from others. Or perhaps you have a different but similar sort of heartache. Do you know the feelings of repeated loss and grief, which bring a sense of hopelessness? My friend Elizabeth Hagan has … [Read more...] about BIRTHED: Finding Grace through Infertility, a book review

Book Reviews,  Grief & Grieving a story of adoption,  Birthed: Finding Grace through Infertility,  Elizabeth Hagan,  grieving infertility

July 15, 2016

This Is How We Grieve

My father died in the early morning hours of Father's Day, about a month ago. My husband and I have been keeping my mother company since then. We're grateful for flexible schedules -- an upside of being a writer married to a teacher on summer vacation. As the days pass, we are finding our way to … [Read more...] about This Is How We Grieve

Grief & Grieving spending time with my mother after my father's death

June 28, 2016

Memorial Service Liturgy

My father wrote the liturgy for his memorial service many years before his death. Working with it after he died, I felt very close to him. As a pastor, I have planned and conducted many funerals. Years ago Dad told me he wanted to prepare his own memorial service liturgy, and asked me to send him a … [Read more...] about Memorial Service Liturgy

Grief & Grieving,  Ordained as a Clergywoman grieving for a parent,  memorial service,  memorial service liturgy,  Nicholas J. Huizenga

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